I'm speaking from years of experience, and believe me when I say: I'm fat.
I often mention that I'm fat to my students and they usually reply, "You're not fat! If you're wondering why I haven't done anything about it, I have! 50 or more pounds overweight, you don't have a clue as to how difficult it is to lose that much weight.
Men need to stop being so obsessed with looks and dig deeper into who a person is.
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Maybe that's my own shallowness rearing its ugly head!
But my takeaway from this online dating situation is that it proves to me that men just don't like fat women.
Even the guy getting his hair cut, who had his back to me, found a way to check me out in the mirrors reflection. Although I couldn’t see who was saying what, I kept my ears peeled as they continued to talk on the other side of the room.
Then one of the men said something that I couldn’t hear and the other two grunted in agreement, “…see you’re my kinda dude,” one of the barbers said. ” Making my way back to my chair, I wanted so badly to know what was said, since it obviously pertained to me. As the conversation swelled I heard things like: “Mmm a big woman, that’s me right there.
Before I end this Hub, I do have to mention that I did get a man who wasn’t my father’s age send me some instant messages! Adele, Queen Latifah, Kristie Ashley, Aretha Franklin, Dascha Polanco, and Missy Elliot, just to name a few. If you need help seeing more models that look like yourself, check out the blogs such as The Curvy Fashionista or Fuck Yeah Chubby Fashion! According to the CDC, over 1/3 of Americans are obese.
Yes, I thought, someone is interested in me for more than my looks. I think the solution to meeting a man is to either lose weight or give up on men and become a nun or lesbian. The average weight for women is 166 pounds and the average waist of a woman is 37.5—a size 18.
I've lost 100 pounds before, but due to the fact that I am a stress eater living a stress-filled life, I have gained it back plus more.
However, just because I'm fat doesn't mean that I'm totally unattractive—at least not in my eyes!
I've been told many times, "You're pretty.” Yes, I know I have a pretty face.
And, yes, I always take care of myself by waxing, getting pedicures and manicures, etc.
If you’re talking about black being a culture, you may be on to something. I wrote this piece because I thought there were/are women out there in the digi-sphere who need to know that there are (kinda) handsome, (kinda) bright men out here who really dig them. But, when a curvier woman can fight that mess, and still remain hot on her terms, that’s unbelievably cool and rock ‘n roll level sexy in my book.